Bareback Parties
This is a normal orgy with the safety rules being that no condoms are used. No chems are permitted at our parties whatsoever.
Either you’re on PREP, you’re HIV undetectable, or you’re proceeding at your own risk here when it comes to HIV. It is not other people's responsibility to protect you. Prep is now available for everyone free on the NHS. Click here to find out more about prep.
You don’t have to fuck to attend this party, of course, but if you do you’re there to give or take it raw, and the bottoms want to get bred.
Because I recruit people who aren’t into drugs I find that I have people who take care of their sexual health and it’s unusual for there to be STI outbreaks in this group. If you’re keen for bareback group action but consider it unsafe then my group is a good place to try.
Again, because no chems are permitted at our parties, everyone is aware and present, no-one passing out, behaving strangely or inappropriately .
Rules for Bareback Parties
- This is a bareback (bb) party for breeding: If you don't want to give or take loads or you're extremely picky about who you want to breed/get bred by then it's probably not for you (it really sucks as a top to ask "you want my load?" and be told no and have to pull out or stop so I'm trying to avoid that situation).
- Protect Yourself: It's your responsibility to protect yourself. Either you're on prep or you're undetectable, if you're not on prep then it's at your own risk, it's not other people's responsibility to protect you. Prep is now available for everyone free on the NHS. Click here to find out more about prep.
- No chems: Poppers and viagra are fine, if you want alcohol you can bring your own). Nothing harder is allowed and if I think you're high on something I'll ask you to leave.
- Play nicely: Respect consent but also interact with others. Attitude and shoving people off you is not nice. You also need to participate, you can be a bit of a voyeur and sit out to take breaks but people who won't interact with others when encouraged to may be asked to leave as they're making it less fun for others.
- Everyone plays together: It's always one group, no cliques in separate rooms. There's a natural ebb and flow of people connecting, but try not to stick to just one person and be willing to circulate a bit.
- Everyone arrives at the same time: There will be a 15 minute window to turn up to ensure the group happens, otherwise people trickle in and out and it's no fun. I'm not a dragon about this, people who run a few minutes late can of course attend but the point is you either can arrive at the start or you won't be able to attend.
- Show up: People who say they are coming but who don't show don't get invited again. I have been doing this for a while and I'm also pretty good at telling a genuine last minute cancellation from a flake excuse. If you have a problem at the last minute or are worried about coming for some reason let me know rather than just failing to show.
- Photos are only taken by explicit group consent and no faces are filmed. If you don't want to be in photos you won't be - this is guaranteed. As everyone strips when they arrive people won't be waving their phones around anyway. Discretion is assured and respected, this means that I don't share pics of attendees either so don't ask.
- I ask for a £5 contribution from each attendee. If you have an STI check result from the last 10 days that you can show me then you don't pay anything - please understand this policy isn't about creating a risk free event, simply to help encourage behaviour that will lower the risks for everyone. Please don't argue you shouldn't have to pay anything, it's insulting to me given the amount of time and effort I put into these groups and the fact that I provide food, drinks, lube and alcohol for people, I don't think asking for a contribution so that it doesn't end up costing me money to run my events is unreasonable. If you have alcohol please chuck in a few extra pounds as £5 doesn't really cover that, but I leave that to you to do, I don't police it.
- Don't misrepresent yourself: If you look significantly different to the photos I saw when deciding if you could join then I reserve the right to refuse entry to you or decide not to invite you back to future events. I really don't like having to do that so please don't put me in the position of having to.
- Be understanding: If I'm sick or have an emergency I may need to cancel a group at short notice, I'll only do that if I have to and will always give as much notice as possible so please don't be annoyed with me on the rare occasion this happens. Also you may turn up to a group and not click with the people there or it may be smaller than you were hoping for. Remember there's a limit to how much I can do to set something up you'll enjoy, I can't meet everyone's expectations and it's a simple fact that some parties go better than others. If you have a "meh" experience then remember there's always other times, but the overwhelming feedback I get from people is that they have a great time :)
- Have fun! Make the party what you want it to be, ask for what you want, get what you want, give to others to help them have what they want. This is a very friendly group with a great attendee list, the guys who come will treat you well and I'm sure you'll like what you find.
- Be nice to the host & follow the rules: People who communicate with the host in a way that is dismissive, rude or that suggests they aren't completely stable are not going to be good guests. People who challenge the rules, or ask that rules not apply to them don't make good guests. Remember, these are group parties so it's important that everyone plays together, anyone who dismisses any of the other people present or make others feel unwelcome will not be invited again.
